Day #26

Music. That is my emotional kryptonite. I found that out earlier today. I was in the car with my wife listening to vintage rock - my choice! - when on comes Pink Floyd's "Wish You Were Here"....

"How I wish, how I wish you were here 

We're just two lost souls 

 Swimming in a fish bowl

Year after year

Running over the same old ground

What have we found?

The same old fears

Wish you were here" 

 ...and I. Lost. It. 

I just started sobbing in the car. The wave of grief came over me like it was shot out of a cannon. I didn't see or feel it coming. It just hit me right square in the chest and the dam burst.  It didn't last long, maybe 2 minutes, and left almost as quickly as it showed up. Even though the feelings of loss and sorrow were excruciating, it was a relief to finally connect with my emotions. Granted, it wasn't a deep connection, but it was a connection nonetheless.

And right now I consider that a win. 


 

 

 

 

 

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